Self-Directed Discernment Retreat

 

The Institute for Diaconal Studies is a distinct program

that addresses specifically the mission and identity of diaconal ministry while educating men for the three-fold ministry of service

to the Word, Liturgy and Charity

Five Days with the Lord

Let’s take a step back with our Lord. Let’s relax in God’s holy presence to pray, reflect—to enter the silence. We are here because the Holy Spirit is providing the gentle nudge to discern God’s call—God’s personal invitation to you to fulfill your baptismal promise and, possibly, be more involved in God’s Church.

Is our Lord asking me to revitalize my family life?

Does God desire that I learn new skills to be more productive as a lay minister in my parish or beyond?

Does our loving God have a plan for me as an ordained deacon?

These five days will afford a unique time to be present with God: To get to know Jesus as our companion and the Holy Spirit as our guide and inspiration. Welcome to an exciting moment to be challenged, prodded and directed by the Holy Spirit.  St. Paul reminds us that we are to discern spirits and the benevolent Holy Spirit will truly guide us to morally right decisions.

Here’s our five-day scenario:

Day 1—My Story

Day 2—Living a Balanced Life

Day 3—God Forgives

Day 4—God Prepares the Way

Day 5—God Announces the Way

 

Before we begin... let’s remember that our retreat is good for the soul. It is also good for our general well-being and good health—and body, mind and soul are entwined. As we spiritually retreat these five days, let’s also consider our physical health. Spiritual retreats afford wonderful opportunities for us to also complement our spirituality by paying close attention to our bodies. Consider fasting beyond the suggestions in this retreat. Eat a healthier diet these five days, rest more and include exercise, especially walking. As always, be aware of your limitations and follow your doctor’s orders regarding diet and an exercise regimen.

Now, let’s place in our mind and our soul elements that are paramount to successful discernment. When we have digested their essence—let’s move forward, slowly, deliberatively and confidently.

 

Keys to successful discernment...

We overcome the instability of our emotions. Christian life becomes a matter of conviction and love.

 

The attraction of riches and pleasures of this life are not pursued nor minimized – we don’t reject our humanity – but we do know their proper place and perspective.

 

The Word of God finds ‘good soil’ when it is incorporated in our soul.

 

We possess honest and pure motivation and our attitude is that of Christ.

 

We stop thinking about our gifts and ourselves and concentrate on others.

 

We are willing to pray for enlightenment.

 

We desire self-knowledge and we accept the objectivity of outsiders.

 

We possess a desire for the committed life. It is not short-term in its nature but a lifetime commitment.

 

We possess a willingness to assess our life and we are authentic and sincere in pursuing holiness. We not only strive to be a ‘saint’ but we endeavor to lead others to a saintly existence.

 

We realize that our faith is growing and we desire to be consumed for the Lord.

 

We open ourselves to a growing sensitivity to the needs of people and to learning to lead people to Jesus Christ.

 

We acquire in a spirit of humility and virtuous living a growing sense that God has something great and special planned for us.

 

May God be at your side as you step back to discern God’s call. May Jesus hold your hand. May the Holy Spirit guide and direct you.

 

Blessed be the Trinity and undivided Unity.

 

 

Institute for Diaconal Studies